children trouble 1- PLAYING OUTSIDE

 As all we know that children mostly likes to play outside with their friends or with their parents or siblings. Now in this present scenario,playing outside has become one of the DANGEROUS platform for the children life.   .Newspaper and media had highlighted the crimes happened against the children in their living environment across the India. in this most of the children became prey for the crime because for the silly reason that they  were playing outside .for example ,a 2 year child boy was playing outside his house lonely without anyone care.it has become an advantage to two stranger and from whom  one of him was his (boys) dads colleagues ,who took him to a near by bush and sexually assaulted him.but what was so dreadful that he was found in gunny bag as a death corpse after the day he was missing .this led to a great lose to his family because of a small lapse i.e carelessness of his parents.similarly,the Delhi incident  also encircles this carelessness lapse, in which a 5 year old girl who was playing outside her house was abducted by two men who were drunken.they took her to their room and molested her.their parents lodged a complaint in nearby police station.the police were acting very slowly like a mice in this case.but after three days  her mother heard a screaming and whipping sound from their  apartment underneath block.then her mother informed to their neighbour and they braked the door.they were stucked when they came the same girl who was abducted before three days and  rescued her,she was immediately  admitted in nearby hospital ,where she is battling for her life.in all this instance , the lapse of care and monitoring by parents on their children has become the major root for such crimes.this lapse is taken as advantage by the criminals who attack children. at last to safeguard your child from danger you can follow some tips
1. don't allow your child to play lonely even near the house especially those children who are  below the age of 10.
2.always accompany your child in every and each activities.
3.provide necessary education to your child -what are the danger he/she can face when they are outside?
and how to ignore it  i.e fight it
4.always monitor them what they do when they are lone outside the house.
5.ensure if any of your friends,relatives are behaving abnormally with your child .if they do so,please take an immediate action on it .so that the child 's physical or mental health can be saved from deterring i.e. worsening

"CHILDREN'S  ARE  GODS IMAGES, SO THEY SHOULD BE ALWAYS  GARLANDED WITH FLOWER ( CARE) ,LOVE AND AFFECTION. "

help your child

This are some tips to the parents who are mostly fond for taking care for their children .
1. listen to everything your child has to say . he/she may reveal something chilling
2. in case you sense something alarming in her/his innocent talk,probe the matter in a friendly way.
3.reach out to a counselor.don't make counselling a stigma / taboo.
4.don't be insensitive to your child in case he discloses a family member's,neighbour's/friend's name.
5.don't leave the child alone at home with a help or a family member if you notice a change in his/her behavior.
6.survey the school and day care premises, and be familiar with the risk areas.
7.help the child to differentiate between a safe and unsafe touch.
8.tell the child that a touch on the private parts excluding cleaning routine or doctors examination is NOT NORMAL.
9.don't cover up.you may emotionally stifle your child for life.

http://www.newindianexpress.com  dated 28.04.2013 and the Sunday magazines cover story.

this is a video which documents how the poverty would be a major  cause for children trafficking in all over the world.

this is a video which documents how the poverty would be a major  cause for children trafficking in all over the world.

BACHCHO KI SURAKSHA

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INTRODUCTION

HI FRIENDS, WELCOME TO MY BLOG!!
IN THIS BLOG ,YOU WOULD GET MUCH INFORMATION ABOUT CHILDREN ISSUES WHICH ARE LARGELY PRESENT IN OUR COUNTRY .THERE WOULD BE MANY POSTS RELATED TO PROBLEMS OF CHILDREN.IT WOULD ALSO DISCUSS ABOUT THE SOLUTIONS THROUGH WHICH A CHILD CAN COPE ANY PROBLEM.THIS WOULD ALSO PROVIDE GUIDANCE AND ADVICE TO THE CHILDREN AND THEIR PARENTS.

"CHILD HAPPINESS IS GODLINESS"